who could you invite to talk?
Invite your enemy to talk. Give them a platform to talk because then they will reciprocate. Invite your enemies to sit down and join you. You never know; some small thing you say might give them food for thought, and you will learn from them. Establish dialogue. It’s when the talking stops that the ground becomes fertile for fighting
– Daryl Davis, from this article
[black musician and author, Daryl Davis, referring to his choice to befriend KKK members, many of whom then leave the Klan]